Thursday, December 31, 2009
Happy New Year to all of our lovely Mrs2Be Members
A special wish goes out to all of our New Years Eve and New Years Day brides! May the future be all that you wish it to be - and more!
With our love
Nicky & Emma
Mrs2Be x
Monday, December 28, 2009
Take Two!
If you really can't decide between 2 beautiful wedding dresses, and your budget can manage it - why not go for them both!
Sunday, December 27, 2009
The Retro Wedding Theme
Friday, December 25, 2009
Christmas Engagements- Congratulations
Wednesday, December 09, 2009
The VAT rise & your wedding
- Check all of your quotations and look at those suppliers who are VAT registered. If their quotation does not breakdown the VAT separately then look at the letter head for any sign of a VAT registration number. If you are still in doubt, ring them.
- Then work out how much extra 2.5% is going to put on your bill.
- If you are in a position to pay your balance prior to the 31st of December 2009 without putting yourselves under extra financial pressure, then it may be worth doing so.
- However, if your wedding is still some way off, you may want to pay by credit card in the first instance and then use your cash to pay your card. This way you should be insured should your supplier go into liquidation before the big day. Alternatively, take out some wedding insurance - Mrs2Be recommends E&L Insurance.
- If there are bills you are unable to pay prior to the 1st of January, work out how much extra you will have to pay and adjust your Mrs2Be wedding budget planner accordingly.
Sunday, December 06, 2009
White Wedding Trends
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Friday, December 04, 2009
Wedding Fashion Show at Brynkinalt Hall - a Dazzling Success!
The wedding fashion show at Brynkinalt Hall last night was a dazzling success. The Bridal Gowns were all beautiful and some of the top designers were featured including:
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Eco Wedding Favors
Donate to a green charity - Rather than physical wedding favors for the guests, why not instead donate a sum of money to a charity close to your heart. Simply leave cards on the tables to let the guests know that you have done this without having to state the value of your donation.
Give Eco gifts - Why not hand out Eco gifts rather than favors. These don't need to look pretty, for example you could try a bag for life or a recycled item. If you do want to give a treat, opt for fair trade chocolate or if you can't resist, get the bags stamped with a special message for a fairly low cost.
Give a green reminder of your day - Why not opt for small plants or even seeds that will grow into a long lasting memory of your special day, perfect for all seasons as well.
For a whole host of other ideas, keep your eyes peeled on our website for a fuller article and some great Eco ideas coming soon to our new online shop!
Happy planning
The Mrs2Be Team x
Sunday, November 22, 2009
New Website Tools!
You can now use our planning checklist to see what needs to be done for the big day and tick items off as you complete them. If you want to add tasks of your own or save items to your favourites you can now do this as well.
We can now get back to work at adding even more wedding suppliers and designer collections and are also now working on an online shop!
If you have any suggestions for items you would like to see in the shop or questions for us about anything else, feel free to contact us.
Log in or register now at http://www.mrs2be.com/ and see the new tools for yourself and if you need help, just give us a shout through the forum.
Happy Planning!
The Mrs2Be Team
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Designer Wedding Fashion Show Evening
Mrs2Be has been instrumental in helping to organise a wedding fashion show by Xuberance Events at the beautiful stately home of the Trevor Family, Brynkinalt Hall, Chirk, near to Wrexham.
- Charlotte Balbier
- Maggie Sottero
- Kate Sherford
- Nicola Anne
- Forget me Not
- Blue Bridal
- Ian Stuart Bridal
Monday, November 16, 2009
Winter Wedding Ideas
Use pine cones as place cards. Spray them white or silver or even glitter and insert card with the name of each guest into the cones. We love this one as a really cheap alternative as well!
Create a magical atmosphere by hanging fairy lights in the trees at your venue. You can also use these as cheap centrepieces for your wedding breakfast as they look fab in vases big or small.
Add some winter warmth to the menu with a soup, a hog roast or a hot pot and offer mulled wine or hot chocolate to guests as they hang around for the photos. This is a great way to keep the cockles warmed and the patience running high!
Decorations for winter wedding tables needn't be expensive . White is a great classic look and combines with reds or golds creates a striking look. Use bright red berries in a bowl, twigs or floating candles to add to the outdoor feel.
Marshmallows are a must at a winter wedding. Either go the whole hog and order a chocolate fountain with marshmallows, roast them at an open fire at the venue or simply float them on the after dinner coffee.
When it comes to a winter wedding, think royal colours - reds and blues and if you can incorporate velvet suits and fur wraps all the better!
Crystal decorations are popular for a winter wedding. They not only look stunning but create a magical feel linking in to the overall winter snow and ice theme.
Candles are a must at a winter wedding and there's no place that they can't be used (venue permitting of course!). Candles in a church add to the atmosphere, especially during the darker winter days. Used at your venue candles will add romance, especially if used into the evening.
If your budget allows, why not book a choir and if your wedding is close to Christmas have them singing carols either at the church or as guests arrive at the reception.
Sprayed branches make excellent decoration at a winter wedding and are another cheaper alternative to extras such as bay trees. Use these as centrepieces or as decoration around the church or the venue to add winter sparkle.
Happy Planning!
Monday, November 09, 2009
Wedding Facts
Prior to 1840 when Queen Victoria started the trend, women would marry in their best dress rather than a wedding dress.
Britney Spears holds the record for the shortest celebrity wedding. Her marriage to Jason Alexander lasted just 56 hours.
Macaulay Culkin and Rachel Minor are amongst the youngest celebrities to marry, they were aged just 17.
Catherine Zeta -Jones and Michael Douglas are said to have spent £500 per guest for the food at their wedding.
The average age for a couple to marry is now early thirties, compared with mid to late twenties back in 2000.
Getting married in the winter can be 50% cheaper than the summer.
And our favourite by far...... 1 in 5 women are said to be stashing away money for their forthcoming wedding....despite not yet having found their groom!
Chat to other the brides to be on the Mrs2Be forum http://forum.mrs2be.com/forum.htm
Happy Planning!
Do you Mark, Take That, I mean Take Emma......
The couple chose to marry in private without any media presence so there will be no "Hello" or "OK" photos I'm afraid.
The bride wore a tight fitting 'V' kneck lace sheath dress with a beautiful antique lace vale. Mark wore a purple velvet morning suit - but come on Mark, you could have tucked yourself in! Really!
All the Mrs2Be team wish both Mark & Emma a long and happy marriage!
Friday, November 06, 2009
NEW! Mrs2Be Forum
It may be quiet at first - that's the nature of a new forum, but hopefully over time and with your support we will become a busy little wedding chatting community!
So come on over to the New Mrs2Be Wedding Planning Forum and say hello!
Thursday, November 05, 2009
Winter Wedding - What To Wear?!
Whichever it is, here are some tips from us....
Go for something stylish and chic but overall something warm. Never assume that you can survive freezing outside for the photos for the sake of looking good. You will end up looking ridiculous, frozen half to death and unable to hold your champagne! Opt for something mid length and with a good warm wrap or even a jacket or cape. Trench coats are great for a winter wedding where scarves are also acceptable, as are stylish gloves and sometimes even a hat of the winter woolly variety!
Stay away from bright colours, reserve these for the summer and instead opt for autumnal or Christmasy shades. Green, blue and yellow are the colours for this season. Fake tan and headpieces are out, opt instead for a natural look with a birdcage veiled hat.
Avoid too much of a heel for fear of landing head first after falling on the ice and consider a dress with sleeves for extra warmth! Forget the min dress and instead choose long or mid length. Incorporating a feature floral piece or a dress with some florals in will create a talking point and much better it be this than your nosedive on the ice or your goosebumps and chattering teeth being the main topic of the best man's speech!
It is more common for guests to change for the evening reception at a winter wedding. If you don't want to do this but you can't see the glam in the long sleeves then layering is the key! Adding a bolero under wraps, coats and cloaks is acceptable at a winter wedding. Simply layer up and remove once you are comfortable.
The Mrs2Be Team
Monday, November 02, 2009
Fish & Chips Anyone?!
Guests are expected to include his fellow bandsmen and the bash is said to require a glamorous dress code despite the fairly simple menu. Dancing and bingo are also said to be on the agenda for the evening as is plenty of champagne.
We love this idea and we love the way that despite Gary's fame, when it comes down to it, he really is a true boy next door type. With the guest list expected to include 100 of his friends, we at the Mrs2Be office wonder if we might be one of this 100?!
Happy anniversary Mr & Mrs Barlow!
Monday, October 19, 2009
Becoming Bridezilla
You can be pretty sure that none of us actually set out to become Bridezilla but what we do set out to do is have a bummin fantastic day - OUR day, the way WE want it, with all of OUR wishes granted so God help anyone who puts a foot wrong! According to our research, the average bride spends over 100 hours planning her big day. Add to that the countless hours spent dreaming about it and reading about it and no wonder we get so het up!
Believe it or not, planning a wedding can and should be an enjoyable process, andd there are many ways to make sure that you not only enjoy the big day but that you make planning it an enjoyable experience as well. A good place to start is the Mrs2Be forum where you can chat with other brides to be and gain invaluable advice from our Mrs2Be Team. We will also soon add a full article with tips on how to cope with 'becoming Bridezilla' and how to thank those around you while you flip your lid left, right and centre.
Visit the Mrs2Be forum at http://forum.mrs2be.com/forum.htm
Happy Planning and watch this space for hints on how to control the Bridezilla in you!
The Mrs2Be Team
Sunday, October 18, 2009
2010 Bridesmaid Dress Trends
As we said last week, the latest trend in bridesmaids is dresses that match in colour only. In fact, in some cases the dresses don't actually have to match in colour. For example, if your wedding colours are red and black, it is acceptable this season to go for a combination of these colours for the bridesmaids. So if you have bridesmaids that suit different styles or...dare we say it, bridesmaids that are hard to please this may just be a saving grace! Simply pick your wedding colours and let them choose their own style and colour variation!
Bridesmaid dresses this season are bright and short and lighter in fabric than we have seen for a while. Expect to see everything from tutu netting to chiffon, it's out with the satin and in with something lighter and easier to move in. When it comes to length, again less is more. Forget long formal gowns as these will look too ordinary this season. Shorter length dresses are back and the trend is simple straight edges with embellishments.
As we know already, pink is still in this season so think girly. Bright statement colours such as shocking pink and blazing orange will turn heads on the catwalk this season. Bridesmaids are there to be seen and like it or not are about to get sexier than ever!
Happy Planning
Sunday, October 11, 2009
2010 Trends
Birdcage veils - We just love these vintage trends! Look out for feathers, jewels and netting across the face. The birdcage veil combines the traditional with a touch of glamour and there are so many around to choose from!
Bridesmaid dresses that match (in colour only!) - Simply pick the colour and let them pick whichever style they want, even if this differs dramatically from one bridesmaid to another. This is a trend that we love as this gives your bridesmaids an instant feel good factor and takes a lot of the hassle away from the bride!
Pink wedding dresses - Be these pastel, baby or bright be prepared for another season of pink! Check out the Mrs2Be pink wedding dresses tab for some fab ideas on this trend. If you don't want to go the whole hog with pink, look out for some fab gowns with just a hint of pink or cleaver pink trim.
Orange weddings - We have seen the orange theme starting to creep in over recent months, so be prepared to be dazzled in 2010 as this trend really hots up. From stationery and seat covers to flowers and even dresses, think bright and bold!
Off the shoulder dresses - be these feminine or raunchy you will see these everywhere in the coming months. Spaghetti straps will also feature again in the 2010 collections so get the fake tan at the ready!
Costume Jewelry - As a cheaper option to diamonds and pearls, costume jewelry will again make an appearance during 2010. We love costume jewelry for more reasons than one, it allows you to remain fashionable, it comes in a range of colours, you can usually get away with wearing it after the big day AND it's a lot less expensive than the real thing!
Look out for more highlights of the forthcoming trends as well as hints as to where to shop on the Mrs2Be website over the coming weeks.
Happy Planning!
Sunday, October 04, 2009
Happy Anniversary Mr President!
President Obama and his wife Michelle married on 3rd October 1992 in a Chicago church. They celebrated their first anniversary as residents of the White House last night by dining out in the capital. The president wore a smart black suit and his wife opted for a black knee length dress.
Here's to seventeen years and more for the rest of us!
Friday, October 02, 2009
Candy Buffets!
Our Mrs2Be office bride to be has been looking for unique additions to her day and has stumbled upon this amazing new trend. Not only can you now order an amazing buffet of your favourite sweets and chocolates but you can also now theme these AND incorporate your wedding colour scheme as well!
For monochrome themed weddings try mint imperials, everton mints fluffy white flumps and swirly liquorice, for pink fairytale themed weddings choose strawberry jellies, big pink lollipops and Candy floss and so on! We at the Mrs2Be office can't contain our excitement, in fact we have ordered one in to try this afternoon! We've been to a few wedding fayres recently and seen this for ourselves and we can't recommend enough that you get yourself to your local fayres to check these out. Alternatively search google 'wedding candy buffet' for a whole host of treats that your eyes will not believe!
Watch this space for news of what we thought of ours!
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
How Well Would Your Other Half Do?
Having watched the TV programme "Don't Tell The Bride" last night there were a few things that made me wonder how well my own hubby of 19 years would have done if he had been told he had to organise our wedding all on his lonesome!
There were a few points that struck me during last night's programme. A very sweet young Essex couple,Luke and Lauren, decided to hand over their big day to the BBC by signing a legal document stating that the Groom2Be, Luke would be the only one to be involved in the planning of their big day, in return for £12,000 to pay for it!
Young Lauren scooped up her baby, Poppy and her best mate and hot footed it off to Italy to visualise the Italian style wedding she had always dreamt of. This wedding which would have taken place in an Italian Catholic Church, followed by a small and intimate reception in an authentic Italian restaurant with her dressed in a simple fitted and very plain wedding dress.
Meanwhile Luke was desperately trying to get permission to marry in the local Catholic church that Lauren attended regularly but was having to line up plan B which was to have a Civil Ceremony in a very English stately home hotel!!
My heart was in my mouth as the camera cut back to Lauren who was getting very emotional in the Italian Chapel, describing how her faith is what got her through her baby's early days of lying in an incubator on a Special Care Baby Unit having been born 5 weeks prematurely! The thought of this poor (very teary) girl coming home only to find out she was to be wed in a civil ceremony was almost too much to bear!
Luke then went on to choose her wedding dress - a dress that was - well everything she said she hated in a dress! All except for the fitted bit anyway!
Her Hen Night was to be held in the centre of London (she was a Southend Girl), and she and her hens were to be dressed in skimpy shorts, leotards, leg warmers etc (think Eric Prinz). Of course this left her feeling very vulnerable and uncomfortable and so she and her hens hopped straight back onto their fun bus and set off back to Southend to finish off their night on familiar territory!
So, what started out as a young bride who's expectations were way off target, a young Groom who didn't seem to know what was really important to his wife turned out to be a very successful wedding with Lauren getting the all important Catholic wedding and she even loved the wedding dress he picked out for her!
Phew!
Monday, September 28, 2009
The Role of the Groom
In the age of the modern man, we are seeing more and more Grooms to be that actually want to be involved with the wedding planning. This is sometimes a welcome relief for the Bride to be as traditionally the finer detail has been left to the her. Nice as this sometimes unexpected involvement is however, we know that sometimes us women actually prefer to take on the entire wedding planning on our own. And yes we do sometimes also like to moan about the lack of involvement on the part of the Groom to be, even if he has actually offered to help and we have refused! So what exactly does the traditional role of the groom entail?
Firstly the Groom to be is responsible for picking the best man and of course picking wisely. They may want someone who can organise a mean stag party but they also need someone who can ease their nerves on the day, deliver a decent speech and help to organise friends and family on the day. So their task here is fairly simple, avoid the first choice that enters their head unless this person can fulfil not just one but all of these roles!
The groom is responsible for organising his suit and sometimes the suits for the other men of the wedding party. In many cases however, the bride will choose to take control of this aspect of the planning herself, especially as she will usually be looking to colour match the cravats with the bridesmaid dresses and it is a known fact that colour blindness is more common in men!
The Groom's speech is one of the more obvious responsibilities. The speech comes after the Father of the Bride’s but before the Best Man. The Groom must be sure to mention that the bride looks wonderful and how lucky he is to have found her, thank the wedding guests, the best man, the bridesmaids and anyone else he can think of and distribute the gifts not forgetting to once again mention just how wonderful his new wife is!
So there you have it, when it comes to it there isn’t really a great deal for the Groom to be to think about, unless he wants to that is. Over recent years however, we have heard from some of you that your Groom has been keen to become a lot more involved and we don’t just mean helping out with tasting food and wine. We know of examples where right down to the final details such as choosing fabrics and flowers, your Groom has had his say. Heck we even know of one case where a Hubby to be visited the florist and drew various versions of how in his view the flowers should look!
If your Groom has volunteered to help but doesn’t really know where to start, there are many ways to hep him out. Buy him a Groom’s guide from your local Waterstones, drag him along to a few wedding fayres and delegate a few of the tasks to him. As a good money saving tip, why not even split the wedding budget and challenge each other as to who can find the best deals and save the bigger portion of their budget!
Of course, you may prefer to manage the entire planning yourself. If this is the case and your Hubby to be won’t take no for an answer then try and get him searching for the most impossible of items to find or researching online while you go ahead and organise everything else. Failing this try overdosing him on wedding fayres until he will never want to see another venue or wedding brochure again! After all girls, it’s your day so you must decide, do you want their help or not?
Post your comments on the Mrs2Be blog and let us know just how involved your Hubby to be will get!
Happy Planning
Why Old, New, Borrowed and Blue?
Something old - The reason for something old is that by incorporating something old, the bride is said to be representing a link with her family and her old life. There are many ways in which to incorporate something old, the most popular being an item of jewelery but sometimes even a wedding dress that was worn previously by a member of the bride's family!
Something new - By wearing something new, it is said that the bride will enjoy good fortune and success in her new life. This is probably the easiest tradition to follow as more often than not, the bride has a new dress (and new underwear of course!) for her wedding day.
Something borrowed - The tradition of having something borrowed actually requires the bride to choose something that has already been worn by a happy bride at her wedding. Jewelery is popular again as well as items such as handkerchiefs or hair decoration.
Something blue - This tradition dates back to biblical days when blue was considered to represent purity and fidelity. Often the bride will wear a garter trimmed in blue or a hidden blue band around her leg.
So why the silver sixpence? A silver sixpence placed into a brides left shoes is said to bring a bride wealth, joy and happiness throughout her married life.
Happy hunting for those all important items!
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Large Rise in Prenuptial Agreements
However, this may all change soon as the Law Commission has said that they will be consulting on their use in England and Wales and The Conservative party have made it known that they would like them to become legally binding as the are in many other countries in Europe.
With the 45% of marriages now ending in divorce, is a prenuptial agreement on your agenda?
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Who Pays?!
Mrs2Be has conducted fairly extensive research into this over recent years and we have found that despite wedding etiquette proclaiming that it is the responsibility of the Bride's Father to foot the majority of the bill, it really does fluctuate quite dramatically from couple to couple. These days, it is more common for both sets of parents to chip in and for the Bride and Groom themselves to contribute. In fact we have found that in a lot of cases, the Bride and Groom actually pay for a bigger chunk of the wedding than anyone and in some cases prefer to foot the entire bill themselves!
If this doesn't appeal to you then decide how to approach this with your parents. If they are aware of this shift in balance you probably already know about it and you might even have been lucky enough for them to bring the subject up and offer a sum of money already. If not however, the advice that we and the Brides in our research give is simply to approach the subject sooner rather than later. This also avoids uneasy conversations later down the line, especially if you have gone ahead and incorrectly assumed one way or the other.
Getting a clear idea of who will pay for what upfront should help you to avoid finding yourself unable to pay for something that you booked in the hope that one set of parents or other would one day hand you some cash! Who knows, you may even find when you ask that you are better off than you thought. One word of warning however, we do know of one bride whose parents offered to foot the bill, however she chose not to divulge this to her Hubby to be and chose instead to allow both him and his parents to plough money in to the pot and to SPEND the cash that she was given from her parents on a few too shopping sprees!!!!. Needless to say, this ended in complete disaster and so it should have!
Happy Planning! x
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Anniversary Gifts
We at the Mrs2Be office have decided that we prefer the modern gift alternatives and definitely prefer years 15 onwards We do wonder though if it is about time that someone reversed the traditional order of things and brought the platinum year forward!
Traditional/Modern
Year 1 Paper/Clocks
Year 2 Cotton/China
Year 3 Leather /Crystal
Year 4 Fruit/Flowers Appliances
Year 5 Wood /Silver wear
Year 6 Iron/ Wood
Year 7 Wool or Copper /Desk Sets
Year 8 Bronze Linen/Lace
Year 9 Willow or pottery /Leather
Year 10 Tin or aluminium/ Jewellery
Year 11 Steel /Fashion Jewellery
Year 12 Silk or linen/ Pearls or Gems
Year 13 Lace /Textiles
Year 14 Ivory/ Gold
Year 15 Crystal /Watches
Year 20 China /Platinum
Year 25 Silver /Silver
Year 30 Pearl/ Diamond
Year 35 Coral /Jade
Year 40 Ruby /Ruby
Year 45 Sapphire /Sapphire
Year 50 Gold/ Gold
Year 55 Emerald /Emerald
Year 60 Diamond /Diamond
Happy Planning Ahead!
Monday, September 21, 2009
Perfect Planning
Over the next few months, venues across the country will be host to some fabulous wedding fairs and we don't just mean the biggies. Keep your eyes peeled in the local press and outside hotels for details of forth coning fairs. Remember that organisers also generally list the fairs with on the Internet, so keep an eye on the Mrs2Be Bridal Fairs tab on our left hand menu!
If you find that there are two fairs clashing on a certain day and you can't make both, try and find out which seems to be most worth attending. If you are more interested in some items more than others, it's worth knowing that some will have fashion shows, hair and make up demonstrations and even samples of the entertainment and food, where as others will simply have a number of stands where exhibitors will show samples of their work.
This information should be readily available on the fair organisers website or even included in their adverts and is crucial research to make sure that you get the most out of your trip, especially if you have dragged hubby to be along as well. If you need to do some gentle persuading to get him to come along, then pick a fair that will have something of interest to him. As well as the run of the mill menswear stands, some fairs now feature specific stands for the groom such as stag night or men's grooming.
Happy Planning!
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Mrs2Be Competes to Save Money!
You will be pleased to hear that in total, we managed to save over two thousand pound on her initial quotes and we didn’t even mention Mrs2Be once! So where did our savings come from…..?
Firstly venue decoration, our bride’s best quote for the seat covers that she wanted was £3.95. We had quotes ranging from £2.50 to £4.50 so we checked them out and found that in our view the particular style of cover on offer at £2.50 was a bit cheap looking. We preferred the poly cotton version which we were quoted £3.90 per cover for from one supplier but managed to find the same quality cover at just £3.25 from another. This is the type that our bride was looking for so based on 100 guests (our office bride to be is having rather a large bash!) we bagged a saving of £65 here. We also managed to get matching favors and place cards from the same supplier again making a saving from an initial price quoted of £1.50 per favour to just £1.20 and from £1.10 per place card to just £90p! A total saving of £115 on our venue decoration for a start!
When it came to the photographs, even we admit that this was a bit more complicated to decipher. There are so many packages on offer that it can be hard to compare so we chose a CD only option as this is what our bride was looking for. She had been quoted £650 which seemed to be the average price. The quotes that we got ranged from £300 to £750 and we eventually settled for a package in the middle at £550 managing to also negotiate to just £500, a saving of £150 on the average price. We tried to compare like for like and thought it was important to mention that the quality of the photographers seemed to range hugely. We found that some of the cheaper CD options didn’t seem to have the image range and the photographers themselves didn’t seem to have worked on as many weddings, however there were a few exceptions.
At the more expensive end of the market, the photographers seemed to have a larger portfolio and had been in the industry a lot longer. Our advice here is that unless the photographer comes highly recommended to research, research, research. There’s nothing to say that a photographer charging £300 is any less qualified than one charging £500, but do your research and ensure that you are comfortable with the choice that you make. Don’t skimp on quality for the sake of a cost saving as this is one of the most important items and one that will be with you forever!
When we looked into transport, we had to compare like for like again. We found that the average cost of a car was now at around £350 and a horse and carriage around £650. We based our needs on our bride who will be having a horse and carriage for herself as well as a car for her bridesmaids. We shopped around and played a few companies off against each other coming out with a saving of £50 on the car and £60 on the horse and carriage, a combined saving of £110.
Our bride had chosen a specific gown so we called around to obtain a price, we were able to save £40 by shopping around and found many two for one deals offering the grooms suit for free when the gown was purchased from a particular store. Realistically you may not want to travel far for your gown, however check prices at local bridal houses and keep your eyes peeled for the two for one offers. We also found savings of between £15 and £25 per bridesmaid dress at certain bridal houses when two or more dresses were ordered. With our bride having 4 bridesmaids, we managed to save £100 on the bridesmaid dresses as well as the £40 on the bridal gown, giving us a total saving of £140.
Conscious that she had quite a large number of guests for the wedding breakfast our bride was concerned about the quote that she had received at £50 per head. We spoke to a number of local venues and found that if she didn’t mind a buffet style meal rather than a 3 course formal affair, she could save on average £15 per head. This was music to her ears, as this would allow her to splash out on her honeymoon shopping trip. This gives her a saving of £1500 and is where in this case the biggest proportion of the saving is to be made.
As with all employees of the Mrs2Be office, our bride loves chocolate, so insisted on a chocolate fountain. Having initially been quoted £350 for a 150 person fountain; we found a like for like offer for just £275! This time we didn’t switch supplier as we wanted to stick to a local supplier (to be able to go out and sample the chocolate again of course!) but we did manage to knock the original supplier down to the same price giving us a saving of £75.00.
Initially our bride wanted lots of flowers in her table centrepieces, until she was given a cost of £25 per centrepiece that is! With eleven tables she agreed to compromise with some simple displays with just 3-4 flowers in each. In our view this added elegance and style and cost just £15 per centrepiece saving another £110 here. We also saved on the flowers for the top table by having these transferred from the arrangements at the church, another £40 saving here, giving us a saving total of £150 on the flowers!
We found that the best quote we had for a DJ was £180 and this was the same price that our bride to be had been quoted. We felt that for 5 hours, this was reasonable and were wary of cheaper quotes that we were given as they didn’t seem to be of the same quality so in this instance we stuck to the original quote.
As our bride wanted a toastmaster, she had been told by her preferred venue that she had to have the hotel recommended toastmaster at a cost of £200. This is where it gets interesting as we recently reported on this very issue of hotels demanding that their own suppliers are used for certain items! We found a great local toastmaster at a cost of £150 so now it’s up to our bride to decide for definite on her venue as her other options had no preference. If she does go for this venue then we are sure we will be able to twist their arm and bag another saving of £50!
And for now, our fun comes to an end, although with the bash that our bride is going for, we are sure that in time there will be many more occasions where we can stick our nose for a bargain in! For now our message is simply that there are clearly many ways to save money on your big day but the main thing is to ensure that the quality of goods is not compromised when doing so. Set a wedding budget and have fun seeing just how much you can save on one thing then either save this or splash out on another more expensive item or something you didn’t think you would be able to afford – like the shopping trip!
Happy Planning x
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Katie Price To Wed Again
Now apparently due to marry cage fighter Alex Reid this December, Katie was recently spotted with what looked like yet another huge rock on her finger. Add to this the fact that she is also apparently talking of having another child and it really does seem as if Katie has moved on.
When she married Peter in that fantastic pink dress four years ago, Mrs2Be was amazed at the number of Katie and Peter style weddings that sprang up, so we can't wait to see what she comes up with this time!
Keep your eyes peeled for a new trend this December ladies..........
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
A Warm Mrs2Be Welcome to Pear Tree Pictures
Mrs2Be welcomes Pear Tree Pictures! Pear Tree Pictures are wedding photographers who work throughout the UK but predominantly throughout London, Kent, Essex, Hertfordshire, Surrey, Hampshire, Buckinghamshire and the South-East.
Their reportage style photography is simply beautiful - why not see some of our Pear Tree Pictures Real Life Brides and judge for yourselves!
Monday, September 14, 2009
Cake!
Following the sale of a piece of cake from Charles and Diana's wedding which went for £1,000 at auction last year, we will be interested to see how much today's piece makes!
The cake will go on sale today at Hampshire auctions in Andover. It is estimated that it will sell for a lot less at around £60 - £80, the cake is ironically being sold by a lady by the name of Diana.
Watch this space for the result of the auction!
Friday, September 11, 2009
Uma Thurman To Wed At Kensington Palace!
It costs around £11,000 to hire the room for the ceremony and the venue however Uma has apparently also hired the rest of the palace to ensure her privacy. It is expected that close friends Sir Elton John, Claudier Schiffer and Sting will all attend the ceremony.
We will be keeping our eyes peeled for news of her wedding plans!
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
09-09-09
It is the ninth day of the ninth month of the year 2009 and don't we know it in the wedding industry! After the fever surrounding the seventh of the seventh two thousand and seven weddings, once again wedding venues across the globe have been inundated with requests for couples to marry on this date. Las Vegas has once again been at the centre of wedding chaos as couples queue to wed with many being turned down due to numbers.
Couples across the world have not only picked today's actual date for all the nines but have really gone to town and are also fighting for 9am and 9pm slots at nine minutes past the hour, with 9 or 99 guests and in some cases with almost everything they can think of being related back in some way to the number 9!
So why such craziness over these quirky dates? Couples quite simply love the symbolism and the symmetry of these dates and the fact that the next time the date will come along will be in another century. Some feel that the date spells good luck, while others are purposely avoiding the date saying that it is too closely related to 666. Some even say that they picked this date simply because it will be easier to remember future anniversaries! Whatever the reason, there are simply tens of thousands of couples opting for today's date ...... ah how romantic!
Monday, September 07, 2009
Who Recommended Your Suppliers?
There are certainly advantages to working with suppliers who know your wedding venue and how the work, but many suppliers are used to working with different venues.
Our concern is that there are occasions when a Wedding Venue has a vested interest for you to use their recommended suppliers as it has come to our attention here in the Mrs2Be office, that some unscrupulous members of staff are taking - hmmm - let's say "a monetary gift" from certain suppliers in order to ensure they are the supplier that is recommended.
We are not happy about this at all and we are pretty sure our lovely couples would not be either! Let's face it, this is them recommending the best person for them - not the best person for YOU! This is YOUR day, and you deserve the best YOUR money can buy!
So here are our top tips:
1. By all means, listen to what your venue has to say with regard to suppliers.
2. Speak to friends and relatives who have got married recently, think about weddings you have been to where you particularly admired something such as flowers, table decorations etc.
3. Visit local bridal fayres and collect some information from them too.
4. Make a shortlist of say 3 x suppliers and make appointments to go and visit them.
5. Pick someone you can work with, someone who gets back to you in a timely fashion and does what they say they are going to do, and of course, someone whose work you have seen for yourself and you admire.
There are many wedding venues who will happily recommend suppliers and have absolutely no vested interest at all, but the safe bet would be for you to add them to your shortlist and follow the same tip tips above - just to be sure they are the right supplier for YOU and not for your venue!
Thursday, September 03, 2009
Football's Mr Nice Gary Lineker has wed!
Football's 'Mr Nice' - Gary Lineker has wed his beautiful girlfriend of 2 years, Danielle Bux, in a very private ceremony in Italy.
The service is reported to have cost them just £400 and took place in Ravello Town Hall with just two witnesses present. The Groom wore an outfit without a tie and the bride wore a simple cream dress.
The couple then celebrated with family and friends in true celebrity style, throwing a party reported to have cost in the region of £250,000 at the Hotel Caruso!
On this occasion the Groom was fully suited and booted! And the bride wore a beautiful wedding gown by Suzanne Neville which we think is from the 2009/2010 Royal Collection!
More details and photos can be found here.
The team at Mrs2Be wish them all the very best for the future.
Monday, August 31, 2009
I Do(omed)
If ever there was a story to highlight the importance of taking out Wedding Insurance, then this is it!
Kenneth & Karen Porter spent more than a year planning their big day which eventually went out without a hitch but not before:
- The groom's trousers were made in the wrong size
- The wedding dress shop supplying the bridesmaid dresses went into liquidation
- The airline and travel agent they used to book their honeymoon closed down
- The wedding reception venue went into administration 10 days before the big day
And to top it all off the couple had splashed out on a pair of tickets to see Michael Jackson in concert.
Phew - I think even the most laid back of Brides to be would have reaching for the bach flower remedy on this occasion.
Thankfully - they did manage to find alternatives and even had some good luck along the way when the bridal shop where Karen bought her wedding dress was broken into but her dress remained untouched.
So please, if there is one thing that goes at the top of your wedding budget list - let it be Wedding Insurance - it doesn't cost much but can save you a whole lot of cash and headache should the need arise which hopefully it wont!
Mrs2Be recommends E&L Wedding Insurance who are offering a 25% discount if you buy online!
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Vintage Wedding Dresses
Vintage wedding dresses such as this beautiful Jenny Packham design, are still very strong this season but what exactly is Vintage? Well, you may be surprised to know that as far as fashion is concerned, "Vintage" spans from the 1920s and the 1980s.
There is so much choice so we have written an article specifically to help you when it comes to choosing a vintage style wedding dress whether you plan to go for an original or a modern day vintage feel design.
We'd love to hear your thoughts so why not leave us a comment?
Read the article here!
Friday, August 28, 2009
From Miss Right to Mrs Wong
Here's one to make your eyes water - if not with emotion, then with pain at the sheer thought of giving birth to 10 children in 12 years!
Rachel Savory and Jay Wong became engaged and set an original wedding date of June 1996, but due to the fact that Rachel was almost in a permanent state of pregnancy for 12 years, they only tied the knot once another knot had been tied - for good too, if you know what I mean!
So after 14 years of being engaged, the couple finally got married on 20th June 2009 on Merseyside! With their beautiful children (all 10 of them) in tow the couple are now pronounced Husband and Wife!
What is even more amazing is that Rachel dropped 4 dress sizes from a size 20 to a size 12 AND they managed to organise the whole day on a budget of £2,500!
Congratulations Rachel & Jay Wong! You are the Mrs2Be newly wedded couple of the Summer!!
For more of their story head here.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Has the current climate crunched your wedding budget?
All this talk about the "credit crunch" cannot go unnoticed and with the average cost of a wedding now being between £17k - £21K there is a lot to crunch!
What we here at team Mrs2Be would like to know is:
a) has the credit crunch had a direct affect on your wedding budget?
b) if so, in what way?
Or, if you are a wedding supplier, what affect, if any are you experiencing from your brides? Are they slower to commit? Are they cutting back on non-essentials? Are they doing more themselves?
Dec Donnelly - Is Marriage on the cards?
Following a recent sighting of Declan Donnelly (think (Ant & Dec) and his beautiful girlfriend Sky Sports presenter Georgie Thompson, the rumours are flying .................... are they? Are they not? About to tie the knot?
Dec who is 33 years old, has not had a long term love interest since dating actress Clare Buckfield. Sadly their union dissolved in 2003. But following reports by the Daily Mail, that the pair were seen the "all loved up" in a restaurant in London - Mrs2Be for one are hoping wedding bells may be on the cards!
Dec's TV partner Ant married his long term girlfriend Lisa Armstrong in July 2006. They chose to do so in a very non-celeb fashion with just close family and friends.
Dec was Ant's best man - maybe it is time for Ant to return the favour! What do you think?
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Fab New Website
We have some great new free tools coming your way as well as some more discounts and special offers from suppliers across the UK. We would still love to hear from you with ideas and in fact with YOUR wish list of what you would like to see on the new site and any tools that you would like us to consider adding.
Please get in touch with your ideas over the next week or so and we will see what we can do.
Happy Planning!
The Mrs2Be Team x
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Donna Salado Collection - Featured on Mrs2Be.com
Donna, who has been nominated four times for "Designer of the Year" has turned her passion into a career which coupled with that ever so slightly 'risky' element of her personality is stamped firmly on the designs.
We will hopefully be able to bring you Donna Salado's stockists in the very near future too but in the meantime visit http://www.donnasalado.com/ for more information.
This beautiful wedding wedding dress featured here is Camrie from the Donna Salado Couture Collection.
Sunday, August 09, 2009
Ahhh How Tweet!
Suzy Perry of Channel Five's The Gadget Show has become the first celebrity to post her wedding photos on Twitter!
Suzi and her hubby Bastien Boosten (who she met during the filming of one of The Gadget Show series!) shunned the traditional wedding album route in favour of a more high tech approach befitting of a high-tech gal!
It seems that the excitement of her friends and family being able to "Tweet" back within minutes of the photos being posted, was too much to resist!
Suzy chose to marry in Las Vegas last week. She thought this option would be less stressful than a traditional wedding! She has obviously not heard of Mrs2Be!!!
For more photos of Suzy and Bastien's big day go to http://twitter.com/suziPerry
Sunday, August 02, 2009
Charlotte Balbier - New Wedding Dresses Added
The Mrs2Be team is a huge fan of wedding gown designer Charlotte Balbier and so we are always delighted when Charlotte's look book lands on our desk!
Charlotte's designs are the epitomy of femininity and romance. We have added to the online gallery of Charlotte's beautiful wedding dresses on our sister site, www.shelaghm.co.uk so why not take a peep.
Charlotte's collection includes a few calf length gowns which we always like to see, as well as some vintage feel designs. My personal favourite has to be "Carrie" a pale pink, mid length gown which is the ultimate in contemporary, feminine design.
Which is your favourite?
Monday, July 06, 2009
Honeymoon, Minimoon or Staycation? What's it to be?
Now you have it's a multiple choice - you can:
A) Honeymoon in the traditional sense. Generally somewhere exotic, "holiday of a lifetime" type approach such as the Maldives or Mauritius
B) Minimoon which would involve a short break of 4-7 days somewhere a little closer to home. Maybe Europe or somewhere such as Egypt or Cyprus just outside of the EU.
C) Staycation - a short break here in good ole Blighty! Hey, if it's good enough for Joe Cole and Carly Zucker - it's good enough for us!
And the decision is not all necessarily down to cost - many couples are stating that they are unable to take 2-3 weeks holidays off work right now, and many would not want to in the particular economic climate!
So - what's it to be for you? Have your say by voting in our poll in the right hand menu - we'd love to know - we are nosey like that!
Happy planning!
Wednesday, July 01, 2009
Mrs2Be Supplier of the Month July 2009
The Mrs2Be Supplier of the Month for 2009 is Covers and Bows of Ellesmere Port. Read all about how they can work their magic on your wedding venue!
They really have got it covered!!
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Biker Wedding Brings Town to a Standstill!
Between 40 and 50 members of a North Wales bike club called "The Chopper Club" along with members of other clubs across the country decended on St Giles' Parish Church, Wrexham to celebrate the marriage of local couple Ron and Jayne Adams, of Hightown.
For more info and photos click here.
Monday, June 22, 2009
July's Wedding Theme of the Month!
Mrs2Be is delighted to announce a new "Wedding Theme of the Month" feature. July's wedding theme is "Magnificent Monochrome"
We love Monochrome as a wedding theme here in the Mrs2Be office because it is so contemporary, chic and yet so easy to do.
Why not check out the article for yourself and leave us a comment!
If you have any wedding theme's you'd like us to cover - drop us a line and we will do our best! We area always up for a challenge!
Sunday, June 14, 2009
A Bridal Fair With a Difference!
When we received the details of this event into the Mrs2Be office which is due to take place on June 26th we were really excited.
Red carpet entrance, paparazzi photos, professionally choreographed catwalk shows, a variety of wedding entertainers, a delicious Bar-B-Q and Hog Roast as well as a firework display!
Cranage Hall Hotel is situated two miles from the M6 motorway on the A50 between Holmes Chapel and Knutsford.
Tickets cost just £7.00 each.
For more information see the Mrs2Be Bridal Fairs page.
We will be there for a nosey too! Enjoy!
New Real Life Bride
Check out their Real Life Wedding and others HERE!
Do you fancy being a Mrs2Be Real Life Bride? If so, drop us a line!
Thursday, May 07, 2009
Love Is In The Air - at 20,000 feet!
It is a fact that many brides and grooms are looking for more and more unusual places to tie the knot so it really was just a matter of time before such an application was made.
Of course, there are a number of rules and regulations governing wedding ceremonies so it is not yet know what format this would take place if it were to be approved.
So, "Tying the Knot" could soon become "Flying the Knot!!" - we will keep you posted!
Sunday, May 03, 2009
Exclusive Sarah Houston Designer Weekend May 2009
Meet international bridal designer Sarah Houston at this exclusive Designer Weekend. Sarah will persdonally showcase her complete 2009 collection and preview some of her exciting new 2010 gowns. All dresses will be available to try on and purchase - ask about our special purchase incentive. Brides often describe the feeling of wearing a Sarah Houston wedding dress as being “immersed in liquid gold”.
For tickets or more information please Call 01926 858835 or email
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Mrs2Be Registration Page is Fixed!
If you do experience any further problems, please do not hesitate to contact us here at Mrs2Be!
Happy Planning!
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
New Bridal Fair Facility
- Go to www.Mrs2Be.com/bridal-fairs.php
- Click on the "Add your bridal fair" text link or banner
- Add your event
- Submit
Your event will then be reviewed by our administrator and you will receive notification of it becoming live on our website.
It's that simple, and best of all - it is FREE of charge! So, if you are planning a Wedding Fair or you know of an event taking place near you please do pop along and let us all know about it!
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
A Fresh Take on Wedding Stationery by Cheshire Stationery Designer
- Trafford Centre Debenhams on the 31st of January and 1st of February
- The Rhinewood Hotel in Glazebrook, Warrington on the 22nd February
- The Paddington House Hotel in Warrington on the 15th March
Monday, January 05, 2009
Sarah Houston Couture Bridal Collection
Mrs2Be is proud to present the couture bridal collection of US newcomer Sarah Houston. Sarah's collection was launched at the British Bridal Exhibition in Harrogate in September 08. The collection is now to be showcased at select stores around the UK. A list of Sarah Houston designer days can be found at HERE.
The collection will be available from hand selected bridal outlets throughout the UK in the coming months.
The gowns themselves are beautifully designed to provide a perfect blend of "spirit of old world charm to the essence of the modern day".
Sarah custom designs all her own laces to create a signature look that is truly authentic & original and captures the essence and individuality of each gown.
This collection is so romantic and timeless as she combines lush satin crepes with silk chiffons and organzas each immersed in textures designed to flow.
But take a look for yourselves and see what you think as the collection can be viewed online HERE.